to make sb change their ways, opinions etc

strokes 14
strokes after radical 12
别扭 彆扭 bie4 niu5
awkward; difficult; uncomfortable; not agreeing; at loggerheads; gauche

别嘴 彆嘴 bie4 zui3
mouthful (awkward speech); tongue-twister

闹别扭 鬧彆扭 nao4 bie4 niu5
to be difficult with sb; to provoke disagreement; at loggerheads; to fall out with